Jerry's Subs and Pizza: 1; 123Valerie: 0

It's a hard lesson to learn, but sometimes 12 inches is just too much.

Burf. The Beast and I just tangled. That bitch fights dirty--all teeth and nails.

So, hey. My intestines not-with-standing, I'm having an internal battle. I have a friend. He got fired from a job in less than flattering circumstances of his own doing. He's a bit of a mess and unlikely to get it together any time soon. He wants to borrow money.

For once in my life, I'm in a position to give some. And I'm fully aware it's a gift. Despite his assurances to the contrary, I know I'm not getting it back. My issue is not that he asked or in the giving or even the non-repayment. Money's only good for the good it can do.

But, I know it's not going to be used to buy a new interview suit or to keep the electric going or even for cable TV. His Mom will take care of that. But his family has learned not to give him cash because it will be spent on cigarettes and beer, two things that will decidedly NOT help him get back on his feet.

Now, the beer I can concede, but the cigarettes--well that's a whole 'nother messy story.

In the Comments section, tell me what you think I should do.